Ava had her 9 month appointment, a month late last week. She is doing perfect in our eyes. The PA on the other hand kept telling me Ava is was behind since she is not:
-crawling with her belly off the floor
-cruising
-did not get her top teeth right after getting her bottom two
-nor is she drinking well from a sippy cup.
According to the PA, "A lot of 9-10 month olds are off a bottle at this age." "Get their top teeth with a few days of getting their bottom teeth." and, "Are cruising all over the place." I just kept calmly telling her babies do things in their own time and it's not a competition.
I'm really glad I know better. Ava is not behind. It's normal for a 5 month old to have several teeth and normal for a 10 month old to have none. It's also normal for some babies to never crawl at all, some experts will argue crawling isn't even considered a milestone anymore. Every baby does things in their own time. I work with the Pediatrician in the office and really like her, but it is like pulling teeth to get in to see her. So after going through 2 PA's (and waiting a month so I didn't have to see the first PA, who annoys me) I think I'm going to find another office that is closer to home and is more current in their literature. I also plan on talking to my current Ped to let her know why I'm leaving and tell her that the PA's in her office are giving misguided information. I can imagine how freaked out a parent who has done no research on her own or had babies within a similar age would be if a PA told them their baby was behind.
Ava's stats at this visit are:
Weight: 17 lbs 6oz- (25% at 9 months) (*15% for 10 months)
Length- 26 3/4 in -(25% at 9 months) and (*10% for 10 months)
Head Circ- 18 1/4in -(96% at 9 months and (*90% for 10 months)
*The Peds office counted her stats for her being 9 months, but since we were in a month late I wanted to remember what it was for 10 months too.